Hello, I'm new here.. any of guys have so much struggle admitting mistakes you made at work? Like to our managers or clients.. since INFJs have perfectionist sensitivity & desire of harmony. Do you have the same struggle with me? Maybe after realize im not the only one might calming my anxiety & overthinking, lol. And if you have pro tips about it kindly share them..
Thanks all.. have a happy day :)
Totally agree. Beating myself up for mistakes has really made worklife difficult for me. The fear of disappointing others and not living up to my high standards.. Tuning into my Intuitive side and trying to see the situation from the outside has helped a bit. A model I have got from a counselor is DLS- what did I Do- what did I Learn and what is Smart to do next time- has helped me to stop over- analyzing and be more oriented to facts instead of feelings. This model is freely translated from Norwegian called GLL. Plenty of luck! The only way to trust yourself more is to dive into the Intuition instead of Extraverted Feeling. Trying to get in touch with Introverted Feeling and to start listening to your own feelings is also a starting point. Plenty of luck to you! INFJ's are needed in the workplace- so start shining your light!!
Break free from the limits and let your footsteps lead the way - Drift Boss is waiting.
I completely understand. I joined here today because this very thing has becme overwhelming. It is good to find places like this to speak to people that I know understands