I'm always curious what type your significant other is?
I'm not in a relationship right now, but I have a specific type picked out that I think would be amazing (though I don't exclude other types when I'm dating).
Hi Anneliesk07, well met my friend. The N and the F, I think are so crucial in a male. I think that if we are able to find a male who can follow his OWN head and heart, we have a very good chance of happiness with him. The P can be positive, it is a sign of versatility and being able to break out of cycles and embrace new ones. The E unless 100%, will generally have a certain percentage of I as well. You mention balance as does arianne.saden below. It is compatability of desires that allow for balance. How easy though is it to maintain a steady balance? I have no balance in my relationship, it is up and down as the proverbial `yo yo´. ISFJ-A is my partner of now but I would suit only another INFJ-A and that is what I will be keeping in my mind!
My hubby of over 30 years is ENFP. We have our ups and downs but overall balance each other out well.