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The Purpose Challenge, day 7, gave a suggested book to read of The Desire Map by Danielle Laporte. I listened to the whole book while tending my garden (like heaven to me!!) This book has me THINKING!!! Wow!! Really enjoyed this book, I plan to order a copy to have and make notes in. Will most likely listen to it again very soon. Anybody else struggling to get your life in a positive direction, this book nailed down some direct ways to help you. Have a great week!! 😀

I'm always curious what type your significant other is? I'm not in a relationship right now, but I have a specific type picked out that I think would be amazing (though I don't exclude other types when I'm dating).

Hello everyone! I just wanted to know if any other INFJs feel uncomfortable when people try to make eye contact with you( for more than a few seconds)? Maybe it’s just me, but with prolonged eye contact, I feel uncomfortable and slightly violated in a way. I feel like that person is trying to get inside my head or into my soul even…it’s just creepy to me. I’m okay with eye contact with those I feel comfortable with and I know that it’s incredibly rude to not make eye contact when you’re speaking to someone, but to have someone talking to me and try to figure me out? Hell I can’t even figure myself out😆. Over the years my tolerance for eye contact has improved as it’s a necessary component of my job, but sometimes it can be uneasy for me. Maybe because we’re so involved with the safe and fascinating world we create in our minds that anyone who tries to interfere puts us on high alert? To me it feels like my guard is being let down and all my secrets are being exposed. I appreciate your thoughts and comments ❤️