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Why are INFJs so Attractive?

Updated: Feb 7, 2022

In Short

INFJs are attractive because we understand people so well. We have a powerful intuition that allows us to dive into our partner’s personality and understand them better than they understand themselves.

Why are we attractive?

INFJs are an uncommon personality type, making up only one percent of the population. We are introverted, intuitive and feelers. INFJs have a strong intuition that helps us to understand people on an emotional level and we like to help others in order to make this world a better place for everyone. This combination makes INFJ women extremely attractive because we want to create something meaningful with our lives.


The first thing that makes us extremely attractive is that we are really rare. Most people haven’t met someone like us before and they are usually really intrigued. They want to know more about how we operate, but as hard as they try, they just can’t quite figure us out. It keeps them guessing and coming back for more.


The second thing that makes us extremely attractive is our intuition and understanding of people on an emotional level. We have a powerful intuition that allows us to dive into our partner’s personality and understand them better than they understand themselves. Understanding someone on an extremely deep level is the most amazing and intimate feeling ever. They won’t find that experience anywhere else.

Driven to be better

Another reason why INFJs are very appealing as a partner is that we want the best out of life in order to make this world better. We are the type of people who won’t just sit around and complain. We dream big dreams and will go out and do something about it. We make our own lives better by making other’s lives a little bit easier too.


INFJs are naturally quiet and thoughtful people. We take time to look at a whole situation before we respond and use our intuition to see and feel things that others will miss. When we find someone who understands us and appreciates our sensitivity – an INFP male could work well in this situation – then we will really open up to them and have that deep and powerful connection. It’s an amazing feeling to be alone together with someone who understands.

Driven to make a difference

We are also extremely passionate and creative people. We have a strong need to make things happen in our lives, which is why we’re so driven when it comes time for us to work on something that matters deeply to us. We have the ability to get focused on something and not give up until we achieve it. We need something to inspire us, whether it’s a cause that we are passionate about or a career that we love. Whatever the case, we will work with a passion that will shock and surprise most other personality types.

Helping people

INFJs are attractive because we love to help people. We are intuitive and insightful people who can see the world through other’s eyes better than anyone else. They come to us with their problems because of how well we understand them and because we have an excellent reputation for offering amazing advice.

We are also told that we’re very good listeners, which is something people really appreciate. They tell us how they feel like our advice or insights have helped them to understand themselves a little better and make changes in their lives because of it.

You don’t know you’re beautiful

Most INFJs would never guess or suspect that people find them attractive. It’s not that we don’t want to be attractive, but because of our introverted nature and the fact that we are usually focused on something else, it’s not something that we dwell on frequently. Most people find us too deep or intense.

We are often told by others how much they love being around us even though it sometimes feels like a lot for them can’t keep up with our thoughts or desired conversation topics.

We are often told that we have a calming effect on others, and it’s not uncommon for people to tell us how much they love our eyes because of their depth. We can be so focused on what we’re feeling through our intuition or something that we’ve been daydreaming about that we completely miss how someone is looking at us.

In conclusion, INFJs are attractive because we’re intelligent, creative, and compassionate people. We’re also extremely passionate about what we do in life which is why it comes so easily for us to get focused on something that matters deeply to us to work hard at achieving our goals without giving up until the very end. We don’t know we’re actually completely beautiful to a large group of people. They love our depth and the mystery that surrounds us.

What do you think makes INFJs so attractive? I’d love to hear what you think. Tell me in the comments.


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